Whale Watching

I (Ashley) have had a lot of worry about adoption over the past month. We are still talking to the same birth mom but our communication has drastically slowed down which has made me think that she's changing her mind. I have no proof of this but it's how I'm feeling. I've been spending a lot of time worrying instead of praying and that is never a good solution.

This past week Austin's sister and I went on a girls trip to California. Our main goal was to go whale watching; we found a company in Monterey and went on Sunday morning. The fog was bad! They said the ideal visibility for finding whales is about a mile but we could only see 1/4 of a mile. We drove around for an hour and a half with nothing but then all of a sudden there were whales everywhere! Over the next hour we saw whales diving, feeding and swimming around. It was an amazing experience. After about an hour the whales swam in a different direction and it was time for us to go back to shore. As we were driving back to shore we saw one more pod of whales and we stopped to watch them for awhile. There was a baby whale who was showing off! He was jumping out of the water (breaching), slapping the water with his fins, twirling around and diving!! I was bummed because my phone died and I couldn't take any videos or pictures to show Austin and the kids but just watching was such a gift. As I watched this giant whale jumping out of the water over and over I felt like God was telling me that he knows our desires and He will answer our prayers. I would have been satisfied seeing 2 or 3 whales swimming around but God answered the prayer of wanting to see whales above and beyond what I could have imagined. God reminded me that He knows our desires about adoption and He will answer our prayers in a better way then we can imagine. Maybe this is a silly analogy because seeing whales is not as important as adopting a child but is was powerful to me!

This week the worry about adoption is gone. God has called us to this and He's going to answer our prayers. Today I am thankful for God's plans. =)





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